Ladies, I just heard about a story and the man went to jail for some years and his girlfriend waited for him the whole time he was gone. She was his queen, so she thought, but as soon as he got out, he cheated on her.
This man took this woman's soft heart for granted because he needed her while he was in jail. She didn't get much out of this relationship and he takes her for granted.
This lady is a sweetheart but obviously, she was looking for love in the wrong places. Why is his life more important than hers?
This is a lesson to us all, we all have been weak and fallen short somewhere, but I want ladies to know that you have to place yourself higher than this man you are dating or in a serious relationship with.
You should love your man but he should be loving you too and be willing to sacrifice for your well-being and happiness.
Stop selling yourself short, a lot of you are doing everything and the man isn't doing anything. The relationship should be on an equal footing.
You are afraid that if you stop doing these things, he will leave you, but if a man doesn't love you, he will leave you anyway.
If you are a doormat, he will get sick of this and the woman who will put her foot down and make him be a man, he will be absolutely crazy about this woman and do and be everything that she needs him to be.
Love Yourself First!
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