Saturday, May 12, 2018

Carefully plan your family ladies!

Carefully plan your family ladies!
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Hello, Ladies, I just want to talk to you for a few minutes.  I have watched many videos on YouTube and I am seeing young women with very large families.  Five children or more, some of you married some not.

I think having babies and a beautiful family is essential but I am seeing too many of you young moms with many children.  Ladies you will have to think about how this will impact your lively hood.

How are you going to truly be successful while trying to raise all these children?

When your kids get older, it takes an astounding amount of money to clothe and feed these kids.  If you want your kids to go to College, it would be very difficult to send them because of financial strain.

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I am not trying to be mean but I want to see women be able to have a fulfilling and prosperous life. If you have a large family, I take my hat off to you because it takes a lot to properly maintain a big family.

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If you have a husband, what if he leaves you or passes away, what will you do?
You have to carefully take this into consideration.

Many of you who have these big families are not able to work due to your family size and it put an added strain on Men to have to work extra jobs to provide for your family and that means that Dad is never home and when he is, he don't have time to deal with your children.

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What if you and your spouse pass away, who do you think is going to raise all these kids?
I am not scolding you, but, please think about your future and educate yourself.  You are better than just bearing a lot of kids.

You are great, be great Ladies!

Tuesday, May 8, 2018

What is keeping you from sleeping at night?

What is keeping you from sleeping at night?

Have you gotten some bad news; a job loss or a loss of a relationship?  Maybe you just started a job and you feel that it is not going to work out, so you are up at this hour thinking about what you are going to do.

We all have things that we are dealing with including me, I am up to thinking about my future and my next move.

Counting sheep is not going to work tonight lol, but, if you see that you are not sleeping for a week, then it is time to do something about it.

Go to your Doctor or talk to your local Pharmacist to see if they can advise you and get you back to getting a full nights sleep.

I have restless nights from time to time also but losing sleep is not healthy because it can cause your Heart to race and it will affect your performance at work.

If you are dealing with depression, please find a Therapist and see if this will help you sort things out.
There is no shame in getting healthy physically and mentally.

Also, don't forget to talk to God about your problems and I just want you to know that bad times don't last forever.

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Well, my friend, I have talked enough, so I will now turn over and get some shut eye and I hope for the same thing for you, GoodNight.

Friday, May 4, 2018

Are you looking raggedy because you are not in a relationship?

Are you looking raggedy because you are not in a relationship?

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I asked this question because I have seen it many times throughout my life.  Heck, I have even done it and didn't know that I was until I looked at some old pictures.

Life happens and depending what is going on, you may not even care about the way you look.  I am not talking about being super dressed up every day.

What we don't realize is the fact that sometimes we are depressed and don't even know it.  So what, your last relationship didn't work.  Fix yourself up and try again if that is what you want to do.

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If you have removed yourself from a relationship and have to start all over again, remember to stay clean and neat. 

Take care of your skin and your health because this is very important.  Style your hair in a simple but classic style that is easy to maintain.

When you are not in a relationship, it is the perfect time to concentrate on you and pamper yourself.  Don't be so wrapped up in having a relationship, that you lose yourself and your self-respect.

Find some new hobbies, watch YouTube videos to learn beauty tips, and fill your days and nights with new endeavors to focus your attention on.

I realized that I come first and to never be so wrapped up in another person, that I let myself go.  Make yourself beautiful, no matter what your financial status is.

Never compare yourself to another person because you are unique and you possess very special qualities that God put in you.

He never intended for us to be a clone.  So, beautiful lady, take care yourself and love yourself.

Thursday, April 26, 2018

Bye, Bye, Bill Cosby! (Sex Offender)

Bye, Bye, Bill Cosby! (Sex Offender)

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By now, you all know that Bill Cosby was convicted on all three counts of indecent sexual assault.  I am so glad that justice has come to the victims of his crimes.

If you have never been a young girl, woman, boy, or man who has been victimized, you will never know what you go through.

I was a victim of sexual assault and it turned my world around.  Never able to feel safe, and secure.  Never able to trust anyone is a part of my story.

Sexual assault will impact you throughout your whole life and it is not one day that goes by that you won't think about being assaulted.

The Bill Cosby Trial has given us victims a new voice and we now know that we don't have to no longer be silent.

If you are being assaulted, please tell somebody and also get yourself into Therapy.  If you are a young person, please tell anyone who will listen, don't go through it alone.

This assault was not your fault so please do not blame yourself, we all have a story but before, no one would listen; we now have a voice because of the harm you caused, Bill Cosby.

Saturday, March 31, 2018

The cause of most breakups is because of financial difficulties. Affiliate Marketing may be for you.

The cause of most breakups is because of financial difficulties. Affiliate Marketing may be for you!

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Many relationships start off good but when the bills start coming and the heavy use of credit card use it usually results in debt and that can cause an otherwise great relationship turn sour very fast.

The only way to get from under the strain of having debt is to get rid of your credit cards and find ways to earn extra money that can be used to pay off those cards and from now on pay cash for all purchases.

There are many ways to you earn money at home.  If you have great computer skills you can get a job as a  Virtual assistant or do Data Entry at home.  You have to thoroughly research the companies that advertise these jobs because some are scams.

Always check out the company with the Better Business Bureau to see if the company has a bad rating and if they do, you know to not waste your time.

Below you will see some videos of people who work at home or give information about what is available.

Note:  Never trust any company who promise that you will make millions of dollars while working from home because they are definitely scams.  There are opportunities but you will not get rich doing them but they will help to provide you with extra money so you can pay off your debt.

You can also start a blog and get into Affiliate Marketing.  You do not have to pay anything to start and you just have to promote your links on your Social Media profiles, and you will start to make money grow a business for yourself through your blog

I like to use ShareASale they are very easy to work with and you will have the opportunity to earn money with them

After a while, you will have all your debts paid and it will help you to re-build your relationship.  

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Monday, March 26, 2018

Should Your Child Be Wearing That On FaceBook?

Should Your Child Be Wearing That On And FaceBook?

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Hello, everyone, I was on FaceBook and I saw young babies as young as two-years-old and up with boots and outfits that are not geared towards kids.

I am going to tell you all something, it is not cute. Ladies you have to be careful oversexualizing your babies.

It is not normal, and it is disgusting.  Sure, your baby is beautiful and precious but to have them in clothes for grown-ups and posing in a provocative manner is asking for trouble.

You don't know who is viewing these pictures or sharing them with other people.  Please stop doing this because it is not healthy.

There is nothing wrong with giving your child a little lip gloss or even the little makeup kits that some of the toy stores sell and if your little girl is eight years old on up it can be fun for her to play in makeup for kids with her friends at home.

Let your child be in the mindset to enjoy kid things and not things for adults.  I have seen little kids dancing provocatively in front of men and their mom's think it is so cute.  Then, when something happens to your child you act like you are so surprised.

There is too much going on right now and you cannot be too careful.  On the other side, I have seen mom's monitor everything regarding their children and that is the way to go, mom. 

Protect your children and stop with this foolishness Ladies!

I Gave Him My Tax Money To Flip So We Could Make More Money.

I Gave Him My Tax Money To Flip So We Could Make More Money.

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Hello, everyone, I received this question a while back and didn't get a chance to address it but I am addressing it now.

I received my tax money and my boyfriend asked me for money so he could flip it and make more money.  He took my money and gave it to a man that he met about four months ago and he said that he trust this man with (our) money.

I gave my man $2000.00 to give to his friend and next thing I know, the man my boyfriend gave the money too, took the money and ran.  We cannot find a way to get in touch with this man and it looks like he was using fake names.

I am so upset with my boyfriend because I had plans to use this money to for my children, I have two kids that I am supporting on my own.

This was a foolish move on my part but I honestly thought that this would benefit the both of us.

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I am going to say this the best way possible, it seems to me that your (boyfriend) acted like your money was his.  He conned you into believing that this would be beneficial to you just to get your money.

Honestly, your boyfriend owes you this money because he just handed this money over to a stranger or a friend that he didn't know that well.  I have heard a lot of men talking about flipping money and most of them don't have their own money or their own jobs.

These men are using you and other women to finance their business endeavors and some of them are actually taking this money and doing other things with this money and then they come up with a sad story after they have taken your money to finance their activities.

You said that this money was for your children.  You should have never taken this money that was meant for your kids and just handed it over.

I am sure that you have learned a valuable lesson from this and think about taking your boyfriend to small claims court to get your money back.  You may or may not be successful but at least he will get the idea that you are not to be played with.

Next time, tell him to use his own money and he will not get his hands on yours.